When we listen to someone speak, we may find ourselves captivated by their words. We hang onto every syllable, eagerly awaiting what they will say next. This phenomenon is known as “hanging on every word.” It is a common expression used to describe the act of listening intently and with great interest.God is most beautifully praised when His people hear His word, love His word, and obey His word. --Albert Mohler
The idiom “hang on every word” can be applied in various contexts, from personal conversations to public speeches. When we hang on every word, we are fully engaged in the conversation or presentation, absorbing all information conveyed. The speaker’s words hold our attention and keep us invested in what they have to say.
On the third day there was a wedding at Cana in Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there. Jesus also was invited to the wedding with His disciples. When the wine ran out, the mother of Jesus said to Him, "They have no wine." And Jesus said to her, "Woman, what does this have to do with Me? My hour has not yet come." His mother said to the servants, "Do whatever He tells you." Now there were six stone water jars there for the Jewish rites of purification, each holding twenty or thirty gallons. Jesus said to the servants, "Fill the jars with water." And they filled them up to the brim. And He said to them, "Now draw some out and take it to the master of the feast." So they took it. When the master of the feast tasted the water now become wine, and did not know where it came from (though the servants who had drawn the water knew), the master of the feast called the bridegroom and said to him, "Everyone serves the good wine first, and when people have drunk freely, then the poor wine. But you have kept the good wine until now." This, the first of His signs, Jesus did at Cana in Galilee, and manifested His glory. And His disciples believed in Him. After this He went down to Capernaum, with His mother and His brothers and His disciples, and they stayed there a few days. --John 2:1-12
John begins this narrative with the phrase, "On the third day." This may refer back to John's previous narrative; beginning in verse 19 when John first gave testimony of who he was to the Jews, saying "I am not the Christ, nor Elijah, nor the Prophet. I am the voice of one crying the in the wilderness, 'Make straight the way of the Lord'." John continued in verse 29, the next day, when he confessed of Jesus, "Behold, the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world!" Again in verse 38, the next day when John's disciples left him to follow Jesus. This is when the focus stopped being about John the Baptist and shifted to Jesus only.
Throughout Scripture, significant things happen on the third day. In Exodus 19 Moses told the people to cleanse themselves because God would manifest Himself on the mountain. "On the morning of the third day there were thunders and lightnings and a thick cloud on the mountain and a very loud trumpet blast, so that all the people in the camp trembled. Then Moses brought the people out of the camp to meet God." (Exodus 19:16-17). Remember Jonah was swallowed by the great fish, and on the third day he was spit out on dry land. Jesus would later "show His disciples that He must go to Jerusalem and suffer many things from the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and on the third day be raised." (Matthew 16:21)
So here we are, three days into John's narrative, and we find that Jesus is invited to a wedding, along with His mother and His disciples. "This is the first of many stories suggesting that Jesus was always welcome among those having a good time. Jesus didn’t spoil the good time, and in the Jewish culture of that day a wedding was the best party of all." (David Guzik) “Jesus comes to a marriage, and gives his blessing there, that we may know that our family life is under his care.” (Spurgeon) “He was at this juncture fresh from the most disturbing personal conflict, His work awaited Him, a work full of intense strife, hazard, and pain; yet in a mind occupied with these things the marriage joy of a country couple finds a fit place.” (Dods)
The joyous occasion was put in jeopardy when a problem arose: they ran out of wine. "This was a major social mistake, and could shame the couple for a long time. A wedding was supposed to be the best party of all, and for a host to fail in providing adequate hospitality (partially in the form of food and drink) was a great dishonor." (Guzik) “To fail in providing adequately for the guests would involve social disgrace. In the closely knit communities of Jesus’ day such an error would never be forgotten, and would haunt the newly married couple all their lives.” (Tenney) Additionally, rabbis of that day considered wine a symbol of joy. Therefore “to run out of wine would almost have been the equivalent of admitting that neither the guests nor the bride and groom were happy.” (Boice)
Somehow Mary is made aware of this situation. Although Scripture doesn't say, her presence at the wedding along with her knowledge of a major faux pas may indicate that the newlyweds were part of her extended family, perhaps cousins. She may have been called aside by a panicky bridesmaid or mother of the bride. "What ever shall we do?" Mary knew enough to take the problem to Jesus. We, too, should always remember to take our problems to Jesus.
When Mary returns to the table, she whispers into Jesus' ear, "They have no wine." His response may seem cold or distant. "Woman, what is that to me? My time is not yet come." While Jesus was not trying to be rude to Mary, we know that this is not the only time in Scripture where Jesus distances Himself from his mom. We see in Luke 2:41-52 when Jesus was just 12 years old He slipped away from His parents and went to the Temple, where He was asking questions of the Rabbis there. When His parents caught up with Him (on the third day, by the way), His response was telling. "Didn't you know I'd be about my Father's business?" He was not concerned there with the wishes of either Joseph or Mary, but only the will of the Father.
We see this social distancing again in Matthew 12:47-50. Jesus is teaching, going from one city to another, when He was told that His mother and brothers were outside asking for Him. Jesus responded, "Who are my mother and brothers?" Then, pointing to His disciples, He said, "These are my mother and my brothers." Many scholars think that in this passage, His mother and brothers were there to take Him back home with them, so that He would stop making a scene and causing so much trouble. Jesus clearly marks a break with them, indicating that it is much more important that He follow the will of His Father than that of His family.
Catholic tradition ignores this separation, teaching that prayers and supplications sent through Mary will somehow be heard and answered, because Mary always has the ear of Jesus, and that He cannot possibly refuse any request that His mother might bring to Him. Scripture clearly teaches otherwise--here it plainly shows that Jesus did not perform a miracle because Mary asked Him to. Instead, He reminded her that He was on God's timetable and was subject to God's will, not hers.
Some commentators believe that Jesus rebuked Mary, but then prayed to God about what to do. David Guzik writes, "Jesus must have prayed and then known what to do, because He later said in this Gospel:
- Most assuredly, I say to you, the Son can do nothing of Himself, but what He sees the Father do; for whatever He does, the Son also does in like manner. (John 5:19)
- I can of Myself do nothing… I do not seek My own will, but the will of the Father who sent Me. (John 5:30)
- I do nothing of Myself; but as My Father taught Me, I speak these things. (John 8:28)
- For I always do those things that please Him. (John 8:29)"
"Jesus insisted that the miracle be put to the test, and right away. He didn’t command that the water made wine first be served to the guests, but to the master of the feast. Test it, by the proper authority, and do it right away." (Guzik) “In order for wine to be produced, we have the growth and ripening of the grape; the crushing of it in proper vessels; the fermentation; -- but here all these are in a moment brought about by their results, by the same Power which made the laws of nature, and created and unfolded the capacities of man.” (Alford)