God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. --Psalm 46:1
I just got back from vacation, where we visited my family near Waco, Texas. We stayed with my sister, who is helping to raise her grandchildren. My wife and I have no grandchildren, and after seeing our two- and four-year-old great nephews run their Gram ragged, I'm kind of glad we don't.
Gram sometimes refers to her grandsons as "feral children." They run and explore and play all over the property all day long. They have quite a few ride-on toys, as well--bicycles, scooters, a toy tractor and a battery powered four-wheeler. Whenever they drive off the paved driveway and into the yard or the gravel road that heads to the shop out back, the driving is less than reliable. They often get into situations where the wheels spin, but they don't go anywhere. Whenever they get themselves into this situation, they merely have to call on Gram or G.G. (which is what they call their great-grandmother) to come give them a push.
I was thinking of this on the flight back home. Even when the nearest adult is in the shop, or in the house, or at the other end of the property, those little guys know that calling "help!" will get someone's attention. And because they know from experience that the nearest adult will help them when they call, they do not stop calling. Whenever they are stuck they will cry out until Mommy, Gram, or G.G. comes to their aid. The call is never panicked. It is never tearful. It is simply persistent.
Jesus spoke of this in Matthew 7:7-11.
"Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, and the one who seeks finds, and to the one who knocks it will be opened. Or which one of you, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!"
Greek scholars have pointed out that the verbs ask, seek, and knock are in the present perfect tense, which to be properly translated into English would be keep on asking, keep on seeking, keep on knocking. Not just a one and done prayer, but a continuing action of asking, seeking, and knocking. I think this is what Paul was driving home in 1 Thessalonians 5:17-18, "Pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you."
Those little guys in rural Texas don't stop calling for help after one or two tries. Mommy may be on the phone. Gram may be putting away the breakfast dishes. G.G. may be folding clothes. Eventually, though, someone will answer the call if they are persistent. It is the same with us. We can't give up if God doesn't seem to hear our prayer the first time. We must be persistent. We must be consistent. We cannot see what God is doing at all times, but we know that He will meet all of our needs.
Now, I don't want to take the position that God is a cosmic Santa, or that our prayers are some kind of Christmas list. He will not give us what we don't need, even if we beg Him for it. On some occasions, He may even withhold good from us in order for us to grow and mature. Let me give you an example.
There may come a time when my sister's four-year-old grandson needs to learn to get himself out of a jam. Instead of sitting in the driver's seat calling out, "Help, help!", Gram may want to urge him to get out of the four-wheeler and give it a little push himself. In the same way, our heavenly Father may want to get us out of our comfort zone, urging us to stop doing what we've always done. He may even allow us to go through a rough patch, either to shake us out of our complacency or to fully appreciate His grace and mercy when He finally does come through for us.
Before our vacation last week, I was going through a bit of a rough patch myself. I was crying out to God for mercy as I was putting dirty clothes into the washer. The thought occurred to me that in order to get fully clean, the smelly sock or the stained shirt had to be plunged deep into the water. There is a device inside a washing machine that ensures the clothes get pulled deeper into the soapy water. That device is called an agitator.
It struck me that without that agitator in the washing machine, not all of the clothes would come out fresh and clean. In the same way, sometimes God allows us to be agitated, to be pulled deeper and deeper in over our heads, so that He can cleanse us and make us new. Does this mean we should stop praying? Certainly not! Remember Jonah, who cried out to God as he was sinking further into the sea. What might have been his worst fear turned out to be his salvation; he may have been terrified of being eaten alive by a great fish, but God had prepared that fish to swallow him up and keep him safe, all the while transporting him back to the seashore.
What was Jonah's response? We see it in Jonah chapter 2.
Then Jonah prayed to the Lord his God from the belly of the fish, saying, "I called out to the Lord, out of my distress, and He answered me; out of the belly of Sheol I cried, and You heard my voice. For You cast me into the deep, into the heart of the seas, and the flood surrounded me; all Your waves and Your billows passed over me. Then I said, 'I am driven away from Your sight; yet I shall again look upon Your holy temple'." --Jonah 2:1-4
Next time you are stuck and it seems your wheels are spinning and you are going nowhere, call upon the Lord, who is your help. If He delays in answering you, be persistent. Pray continually. And if your situation turns to agitation, or if you feel you are in over your head, to the point where your worst fears are coming true, pray some more. God will hear you. He will mature you. He will be with you til the end, and beyond.